Sunday, August 27, 2006

Welcome to this world, Rayden

Dear Rayden,

You are born on 20 August 2006 at 0820hrs.

Mummy had a tummyache on 20 Aug, around 0330hrs. She thought it must be the curry from your grandaunty that has caused her to have an upset tummy. But the pain persisted, and she decided to wake Papa up.

We reached TMC around 0520hrs and Mummy's already 4cm dilated. Mummy's been brave and has decided against Epidural.

Dr. Woo arrived around 0800hrs and said you're ready to come out. He quicky got himself ready and by 0820hrs, there you were!! The delivery was smooth and there's a saying that "it'll be easier if it's the second child". Well, let's not take anything away from your Mummy cos, she's been brave and strong throughout. Your weight was 3.45Kg, and your height was 48cm.

After 2 days stay in TMC, Mummy and you are discharged from the hospital. We were glad that everything was smooth and we were home before we knew it.

A check with the Pediatrician 2 days (Thursday) later came as a "not-so-good" news, Rayden. You looked yellow (jaundiced) and we were told to do a blood test at Mt. Alvernia. It was already 9.30pm when we reached Mt. Alvernia. The results were out within 15mins, and sadly, we have to admit you into the hospital. Guess who we saw at the ward? Uncle Shon and Auntie Wendy, and of cos... baby Rachel (who was born 1 day earlier than you). Uncle Shon and Papa were best of pals since Secondary scholl days (we did everything together) and now... our babies also seem to have this fate. Ha!

Rachel and you were both discharged 2 days later (Saturday).

It's been a long week and we hope that from now, you'll be healthy and strong, and "ping-an" always.

Love you,
Papa

Wednesday, August 16, 2006

Baby, you're 39wks old!

Dear Baby,

Went to Northern Hope to visit Dr. Woo again. Today, he did not measure your weight - to our disappointment. He checked on the water level and he mentioned that it is "borderline" case. I think he meant - yah... almost time. Well, mummy is 1cm dilated. Well, it's about 10 more days till your due date, unless, you have other plans like... come out earlier to look at this beautiful world. Ok... not all things are that beautiful, but we'll try to make it as nice as possible lah. Enjoy your final moments in the womb and let us know when you are ready.

See ya!

Papa

Saturday, August 12, 2006

Bully

Saw JW and Shenna in Punggol Plaza just now. He mentioned of an unhappy experience that happened a couple of months ago at Punggol Plaza.

Shenna who was abt 6-7mths pregnant was walking with her plastic bags of stuff in her hand, and was swinging alittle (to keep balance, I assumed). Out of nowhere, a toddler came crushing on her from behind. She was stunned for a moment, and then she appologised to the on rushing father of the toddler. The father was crossed and he demanded an appology from her to his kid instead (with his hands folded). And I think, the attitude wasn't excellent when he was demanding that appolgy. I believed she was intimidated and she quickly appologised again.

JW got to know about this and approached that bully.

JW (translated loosely from hokkien, excludes explict): Hey, Mister. What did you say and do just now to my pregnant wife?
Bully: You looked ugly! Get out of my face!
JW: You're not a man. You bully even a pregnant women.

JW and Shenna walked off while the bully's wife burried herself in her food while the bully stared blankly.

I think he knew he has found his match. There's an old saying in Chinese: There's always a higher mountain. (Yi San Hai You Yi San Gao)

Thursday, August 10, 2006

Baby, you're 38wks old!

Dear Baby,

You're already at the 38th week and you're now consider full term. Went to visit Dr. Woo tonight and the clinic was really crowded, and it really reminded us on the kkh experience. Yah... wait and wait... until, papa nearly fell alseep.

You're quite a chubby baby you know... and you are around 3.185kg. Mummy won the bet again. I had high hopes on you and I guessed that you should be 3.3kg. Mummy's guess was 3.2kg. Shouldn't have betted with her... She is carrying you day in, day out... of course she knew how heavy you are. Hmm.. felt like kana cheated leh.



See... that's you inside mummy.

This view looks like the national flag minus the 5 stars and a crescent. I was hoping you'd be born on the national day. If that's the case, we can celebrate your birthday together every year since it's a public holiday!! But, you have other plans, I guess.




When you are ready, give us some warning, and ample time to go to Thomson Medical Centre. Please don't play too long inside mummy when she's into labour. Since it'll very tiring for her ... and of cos for me too.


Ok... See you soon.



Love you,

Papa

p/s: sorry, we have yet to decide on a name for you. A couple of choices are: Ethan and Raiden. Which one you prefer?

Wednesday, August 09, 2006

Ready, get set.... police, no action.

excerpts from ST forum 8 Aug 2006...

ATTACK ON DOCTOR BY BIKERS
Assault 'a civil case', so no police action

MY YOUNGER brother is a medical doctor working in a Singapore
hospital.

On April 15 at about 11.30pm he dined alone at his favourite food
stall in Geylang Lorong 9. After his supper he was approached by a group of six to eight youths who accused him of staring at them. When he denied doing so, they assaulted him, beating him in the face and abdomen.

He suffered multiple facial fractures and damage to one of his facial nerves. He had to undergo a three-hour operation, which included having two metal plates inserted around one of his eyes.

He will need six months to recover fully and, even then, there will be some deformation to his facial features.

Immediately after the assault, when the gang ran to their motorcycles which were parked nearby, my brother gave chase and, despite his pain and the bleeding, called
999.

While the police were on the hotline, he read out two of the motorcycles' number plates to them from within 5m. The police came 20 minutes later and then only after a second call.

My brother told them what happened and urged them to alert police patrol cars nearby to be on the lookout as the motorcyclists were probably not too far away. Quite shockingly, the police declined and instead asked him to lodge a report with the Magistrates' Court, and left.

What is alarming is that in spite of the serious injuries that my brother suffered which required three days' hospitalisation, the police were unwilling to take up the case.

The police advised that this was a civil case and it was for the magistrate to decide if any action was to be taken.

One would have thought that when anyone is assaulted by a gang of six to eight
hooligans and suffered injuries to the extent that my brother did, the case
would have been classified as causing grievous hurt and pursued as a criminal
case.

The attitude of the police, as demonstrated in this case, will only serve to embolden hooligans to commit even more such offences.

It was only when an appeal was made that my brother's case was reclassified under Section 325 (from Section 323), 10 days after the incident, by which time witnesses
would have dispersed and memories faded.

Had the police acted promptly, especially when they were at the scene, they might have had a better chance of apprehending the culprits as there were witnesses around.


Liew Sok Kuan (Ms)



The lousy memory of dealing with a policeman in SK police centre came flying back to me. The day after Ryanne's passing, we were supposed to get her death cert from a police post. We were early, reached the police post around 9am, since we want to get things done fast.

Wife: We would like to get a death cert done. (Hand over the necessary papers)
policeman: For who?
Wife: Our daugther.
policeman: Daughter?! (loudly... as if he's expecting our grandparents' or something)
Wife: Yes, our daughter who is 1 years old.
policeman: Ok... (starts booting up system... pick up the phone and start calling his colleauges)

we overheard...

policeman: hey! what's the password huh? yah... need to do a death cert. come leh... help out.

policeman: Where's the birth cert number?? Is it... S77...
Wife: No. That's mine. My daughter's only 1years old.
policeman: (nodded) ok ok. Is she still born?
Wife and Hakkboyz together: No. She's 1 years old!!

after sometime, 45mins to be exact, and after lots of phone calls (internal ones, including intercomms,... not forgeting lots of small chats in between with fellow colleagues with topics like the breakfast, and last night's supper)

Hakkaboyz: Hello, we are in a hurry to attend to our daughter's funeral arrangement, can you please hurry up?
policeman: Can't you see I'm busy, and I'm alone here!!
Wife: If you can just focus and do 1 thing at a time, I'm sure this will be over in 10 mins.

After another 15mins, 3 draft copies, since our dear policeman can't read and spell, and not forgetting he didn't know how to use the system, the ordeal is finally over. A total of 1 hr was spent in that police station... just for a death cert.

What I can say? If they can't even do simple paperwork and show some empathy to the grieving party, I'm not surprise of what was reported above. So... what else can they do?

Good luck singapore, let's hope the streets are as safe as ever... and yes, ...happy national day.

Monday, August 07, 2006

Your votes counts! - Part 2

I was shaking my head in disbelieve when they crown the 1st superband in singapore. Couldn't believed that they were that popular. Wonder whether the effects from the lunar 7 month plays a part, or they just have rich families and friends.

Didn't like the fact that the results are based on phone and sms votes. It's just not fair. As for the organisers and service providers, they must be laughing their way to the banks.

*Still shaking my head now*

I guess now no need ecstasy pills... just put something like this on national tv, and ppl like me will be shaking my head for days.